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 This section is intended to be helpful. At times, it might seem that I am belaboring the obvious. Stay patient, though, because I want to guide you towards having the best session possible, and I want to clarify my boundaries, so you have a better idea of where you stand with me. Hopefully, this section will help you decide if you and I would be a good match. This section is designed to give you an idea of what I expect from you during our date. This section is also designed to illuminate my booking process, so you know can book your appointment with me as soon as possible. NEWBIES: If you are inexperienced with escorts and have questions, please visit this Newbie discussion board: http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion_boards/messageList.asp?boardID=33 DISCRETION: For your discretion, I will never call you without you asking me to do so (or, you calling me first). I will never share your private information with other people (except for providers you list as your references in your screening information). I am very careful to ensure that all communication from you is very carefully hidden and guarded in a remote, secure, secret location. In public, I try to be very discreet, for your privacy and mine. I will never say anything revealing to anyone surrounding you. If I see you in public, I will not approach you. If we are out in public, I will not touch you without your explicit approval. I will not be loud in your outcall location (unless you want me to). I also ask that you avoid being loud in my incall location. I will not arrive at your outcall location wearing risque attire. I do not say explicit things on the phone or voice mail. To protect discretion, I advise that you contact me from a private e-mail address that will not be accessible by anyone else but yourself. Discretion is a two-way street. I ask that if you see me in public, don't approach me to discuss escorting. If you want to talk about it, e-mail or call me. I also want no sensitive information to be passed around as public information. READ THE FOLLOWING FOUR LINKS BEFORE WE MEET: COMMUNICATION: I like good communication! During our date (not in our e-mails or phone calls before I meet you), I absolutely encourage you to tell me what you do and don't like, and communicate to me if there is anything you want me to change. I can be very accommodating, and I want you to be 100% comfortable and happy. If you ask me to change something, I will not be offended. I prefer to have a chance to fix anything you aren't happy with. RESPECT FOR ME: I will not tolerate insults, derogatory language, verbal abuse, physical abuse, or any malicious behavior. I will not tolerate threats or intimidation. I will not tolerate pushy, demanding behavior or demands that I offer things that are not on my menu. RESPECT FOR OTHERS: Please don't use any derogatory language or "hate speech" around me that stereotypes and insults minority groups. I ask that you refrain from making racist, homophobic, and sexist jokes or comments in my company. As well, please do not put down transgendered people, fat people, disabled people, or immigrants when you are with me. I do have close friends and family members of all stripes, and it makes me uncomfortable to listen to people bash them or their bodies. In return, you can count on me to never insult or stereotype any of these types of people when I am with you. When you are with me, be nice, and I will be even nicer in return. HYGIENE: Please do shower, brush your teeth, and use mouthwash. If needed, chew gum or a mint. Please do trim your fingernails, making sure there isn't visible dirt under your fingernails. Wash your hands (or use one of my antibacterial products) at the beginning of the session. I will do the same for you. You may use my shower as much as you need to. DO NOT ASK FOR: No BBFS. No photography or video recording during our date. Do not ask for photos that are not already featured on my website. I am not available as a "sub" for BDSM scenes. No brown showers, Roman showers, or scat play. No public play. No race play. I do not take showers with anyone (because it ruins my hair and make-up!) NO HEAD GAMES, NO DRAMA: I avoid head games, manipulation, deceit, indiscretion, and pressure. I am a straight-forward lady. If there is something I want you to know, I will tell you in a direct, yet polite manner. I treat my clients very well, and I hope that is enough to entice them to return. I never rely on manipulation, trickery, or pressure - to built repeat clientele. I like my life to be simple and devoid of "drama." I believe that the best session is one where there is no gossip, whining, or negativity. I am characteristically fair, easy-going, discreet, and nice. You will find me to be positive, sensible, fair, honest, and free of petty gossip. I am never controlling (without your initial expressed desire to be submissive). I am never possessive or jealous; I always respect your right to play on your own terms. I am respectful and psychologically mature. DRUG-FREE ENVIRONMENT: I have a drug-free environment. PLEASE READ: Please do not assume we have an appointment because you have asked for one. To me, we have an appointment after I tell you in email or on the phone, "We have a X-hour date at X P.M. at the Splendide Hotel on X Street in New York City. Call me at this number when you get there: (123) 456-7890." If you do not hear something from me (on email or the phone) along those lines with detailed instructions on where and when to meet me, do not assume we have an appointment! I would hate for you to waste time getting ready for me, while waiting for a phone call from me - because you asked for an appointment. For the sake of better communication, keep in mind that if I do not give you detailed and specific instructions on our location, date, and time - in an email or phone call - that means we do not yet have an actual appointment. PREFERENTIAL/VIP TREATMENT: If there are more than one person asking for the same appointment time, preference will be given to the following types of people: repeat clients who I've seen before, people who have a review history on TER, Date-Check, BGFE, UG, P411, people asking for multiple hour dates, people who provide references of providers they have seen, and people who exhibit respect toward me. SMALL TALK AND "FREE TALK": I do not chit chat, make small talk, or have long phone or IM conversations. This is is not because I dislike you or find you dull. I am very interested in many people, and I do want to know you inside and out. However, I simply do not have the spare time to gossip or make small talk. Please respect my time by keeping things "strictly business" until you meet me in person. If you meet me in person, you can talk about anything and everything, but over phone or e-mail, I tend to be very to-the-point and focused around booking dates and answering questions pertinent to booking dates. "ARE YOU A COP?" No, I am not a cop, but I do have a "sexy police officer"outfit! However, you should know that the whole "cops cannot lie to you" thing is an urban legend. (link) "CAN WE MEET OVER COFFEE BEFORE I BOOK AN APPOINTMENT?" I do not go on "free dinners" or "free dates." "HOW LONG WILL IT BE, UNTIL YOU RETURN MY EMAIL OR TEXT MESSAGE?": It takes me some time to write back to everyone who writes to me. Same goes for texting you back, when you text me. Sometimes, I do reply on the same day. Sometimes, it takes several days or weeks. Usually, my communication is most-delayed during the winter months and when I am touring nationally. I am very grateful for your patience, since I am 100% independent. Nor do I have an assistant. Your patience will eventually be rewarded. I do my best to respond to everyone, even if it takes me a little bit of time, sometimes. NO SEXUALLY EXPLICIT COMMUNICATION: Please make your decision to see me based on my reputation and this website. Do not send me explicit emails. I will not discuss anything that is sexually graphic. DURING THE SESSION: Please quietly leave your gift donation on a table or counter in an unsealed, plain envelope at the beginning of the session. The gift donation envelope should not be discussed at all. Such discussion may result in the immediate end of your session. NCNS (No Call, No Show): If you must cancel, please e-mail, text message, and call me to let me know. As much notice as possible is preferred. NCNS clients must compensate me $150 for my lost time and resources. CANCELLATIONS (NATIONAL TOUR): While I am on national tour, I will accept cancellations made at least one week in advance. For cancellations made between three to six days in advance, I expect to be compensated $75 for my lost time and resources. For cancellations made with less than forty-eight hours notice, I expect to be compensated $150 for my lost time and resources. LAST MINUTE CANCELLATIONS (NYC): Last minute cancellations do hurt me because I am "low volume." Please consider that I see very few clients per week, and I invest a lot of time/energy/resources into our date. Please avoid last minute cancellations, if possible. NYC clients will not be penalized for last minute cancellations. I expect to be reimbursed for any hotel and transportation costs incurred, however. IF I AM GUILTY OF A SCHEDULING MISTAKE: When I am guilty of scheduling faux pas, I do offer a large discount off your next session. I do respect your time as valuable. I also believe in taking responsibility for my own errors. UNINVITED VISITS: If you are considering a visit, you must plan it with me over the phone or in e-mail first. Never, ever arrive at the incall location unannounced. Showing up uninvited is very unsafe for both you and me. Do not show up at my incall location, unless you have my explicit invitation and consent to come over at a specific date and time. ERECTILE DYSFUNCTION AND PREMATURE EJACULATION: If you have erectile dysfunction or premature ejeculation, please e-mail me to discuss special planning for our date. REVIEWS: Did you meet me already? Did you enjoy our time together? If so, I invite you to write a review for me on any of the following websites: TER; Escorts.com (click on "Add a Review" at the bottom of the page); Big Doggie; Best GFE; and Utopia Guide. I do love reviews, and you are welcome to write one for me, if you've already seen me. I always encourage completely honest reviews, written in your own voice. My only request is that my "sensitive information" (such as location, my phone number, etc.) stays private. ESCORT REFERENCES: Yes, I give references, as long as we met in the last twelve months. I assert my right to withdraw any positive references at any time, for any reason. If you are inappropriate during a session with me, I will not provide a positive reference for you. If I hear from other providers that you are inappropriate with them, I will not provide a positive reference for you. If you communicate with me in a disrespectful manner, I will not provide a positive reference for you. I reserve my right to maintain absolute discretion and privacy about my actual reasons for revoking any positive references, so my screening methods will stay protected and discreet. Be on your best behavior with me, and we will probably be okay! Receiving a positive reference from me is a privilege, not a right. I do give positive references for the majority of my clients. MY RIGHT TO CANCEL, DECLINE, OR END A SESSION: I reserve my right to cancel any appointments or appointment requests for any personal reason. I always have the right to end or cancel a session. I always have the right to decline a session request. I never expect a donation in situations where I must cancel a date. I issue partial refunds when I deem it appropriate.
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